Hi guns&horses 🙂 this is certainly a safe place to come into and you wont be judged at all…..Ive never been married but do remember when i was dating guys and was even engaged to one. There was probably 2 i felt really close to, they both knew i liked girls, the 1st one wanted to introduce me to a lesbian for my “first time” lol but knew if he did i’d be gone, he knew more than i did at the time that i was probably more lesbian, then the guy i was engaged to i hooked up with once i’d been in a few girl r’ships (very short term and not faithful g’friends), i never slept with him and he loved my lez friends and they loved him too and to my surprise he opened up about a gay r’ship he had in the army, he was very hurt, no wonder he didnt care that we didnt have sex lol but then i ended up hurting him terribly when we broke up and i found a partner (it didnt last either 11mths of bliss but then she was unfaithful many times and it crashed but i became a christiian through her 🙂 0:) i know of quite a few married couples where one is gay, its great your husband can support you with how you feel 😉