Introducing myself I'm Kevin and Bi

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Joined in 2008
March 26, 2008, 14:08

Hello gang, My name is Kevin. I attend an AOG Church and intend to keep fellowshipping there.

I’ve been married for 19 years. The last 12, I have had a pathetically bad sex life. My wife lost all her desire after hystorectomy surgery. Some time after that, I had an affair with my half sister when She and I were both at our lowest. I repented before my God and my wife, but some damage was to remain. I went into depression, having no release for my sexual urges. I asked a couple of AOG Pastors, and the answers I got ranged from casting the desire out of me, having me repent of a bi experience in my teens, to trying to talk my wife into doing it anyway.

TillI heard of Andrew, I thought there were no Pentecostal pastors who understand.

I searched the net and found and got a lot of answers and ideas I struggled with, but I loved the challenge. I discussed the whole subject with my wife and she is OK with me having a Bi male sex partner, and a bi couple to have sex with, so the search was (is) on.

I wanted most of all to stay in God’s will and hear from the Spirit, and trust In God’s grace all the way, and still do.

I have a couple of good mates I have oral sex with. They are great friends and I can be myself. It’s such a relief, but the penultimate is to find a Christian Bi Couple and/or a Christian bi man and share with them. I want to resurrect my Wife’s dwesire and our sex life and i try to work on that. God knows it’s hard.

Through all of this, I have come to realise that God doesn’t hate or condemn anyone purely because of their sexual orientation. God love us all whoever and whwerever we’re at.

One thing I would caution. Don’t “come out” to the rank and Fil;e Christians unless you want to draw flack, and do please keep fellowshipping and growing in God. The two are very compatible.


Joined in 2006
March 26, 2008, 19:09

Hi Kevin, welcome to F2B, hope it can of support to you.

Joined in 2008
March 27, 2008, 04:04

Hi Kevin.

Nice to have you on here. Thanks for sharing your story. I love this site because everyone’s story is so different. I look forward to reading more of your posts!

God Bless,


Anthony Venn-Brown
Joined in 2005
March 27, 2008, 14:33

welcome Kevin…….I’ll have a read and say more later

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