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January 18, 2008, 15:59

I don’t what it is about the pentecostal movement that gives the leaders a propensity to fail morally(I am talking from the pentes view of morality, my view of morality is different these days). It doesn’t seem to happen in the more traditional churches(apart from the whole Catholic priest thing). The leader of the organisation I grew up in, the Logos Foundation, was exposed as have adulterous relationships the whole time he was the leader. The thing about these leaders too is that they have no hesitation in condemning others failings. I remember our leader(leader sounds cultish and ours almost was but that’s what we called him) used to preach against the likes of Jimmy Swaggart, Jimmy Bakker etc when he was doing the same thing himself. Was he in denial or rationalising his behaviour to himself?


The pastor of the biggest pentecostal church in Brisbane also suffered a similar fate, as did Frank Houston, Pat Misiti and hundreds of other head honchos in the pentecostal movement. The thing with pentecostal churches is that they are so personality based that when leaders fall it brings down the whole church with them. When our leader fell from grace I remember the meeting. People were in tears, outraged, some have left the church(church in general, not the specific church) and never come back.


So, back to my original question, why does this seem to happen so often in the pentecostal movement?



magsdee
Disabled
Joined in 2006
January 18, 2008, 17:23

In all honesty, I just think the movement gets more publicity than the others because they are just that, more publically inclined and media oriented so maybe we will hear more about what goes on than in other churches. Thing is, it does happen in other churches and movements but just as the catholic church admitted, it was kept quiet.


I wonder if because of the fact that so many leaders condemn and judge so openly, they put the movement into the line of bigger fire than the norm? Because of this open condemnation I guess the picture is painted that they are almost close to perfect or that the church is the closest to being the “real deal” so when things happen its almost a field day for people to go “ha ha, youre not so pristine after all”…….not nice & very sad.


Also its almost to the point where the leader is put on a pedastal not meant for anyone at all, they are as human as the next person and so when they blow it, people fall away etc…because their hope and faith was in the wrong person or a person full stop. I know its important to know who is actually caring for and leading the congregation, so maybe there needs to be something set in place where such a high expectation is not placed on a leader, its a hard basket really. If I was a leader and had a battle then I would step down for a while and have someone else take over and just say that because I am a leader doesnt make me exempt from anything that life throws at you…….dunno I have a few thoughts but thats all I can think of right now. I guess it could be denial and ego too maybe that those who fell actually fell or also that they dont want to hurt people and again I blame the massive pressure of a too high expectation placed on leadership.

Anthony I think would be the best person to answer the point about pressure in expectation and such Im only just presuming.



Michelle
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Joined in 2008
January 18, 2008, 20:00

Raskdog, I think they are trying sooo hard to be ”beyond reproach” that they forget about their own human frailty! As their churches grow they have a bigger and bigger responsibility not just for the flock but also as examples. They make ‘small’ mistakes ie a little lie here or there, usually with a self justification, that it won’t happen again, or maybe put themselves in a questionable moral position ie after hours councel with a woman , that could call them into account. It’s like an out of control snowball rolling down a slope, it gets larger and larger until it crashes and everyone knows about it! I believe a church or religious group needs to be accountable to each other and not just have the guy at the head, shouldering more than they can handle ( or think they can!)



magsdee
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January 18, 2008, 21:50

Yeh its so true Michelle, they do forget about their own human frailty, they are trying so hard to be a great example, talk about pressure shock from testimonies I have heard that was one thing that was spoken of for sure. You talked about the snowball effect, how true is that, you think you can handle it between God and yourself but you cant and their comes a time when you just have to reach out for help. Its just such a shame as in Anthonys case, that he reached out but help was not coming and how many more have had it the same.


I do feel that a public confession is almost shame generating, its not needed, it should be enough to say that “hey im dealing with some heavy issues and I need some time out” who’s business is it anyway to know the ins and outs of peoples private lives or struggles, I always found that in church too many people felt they had a say in your life that crossed the boundaries of healthy accountability, sure if what a person did was going to be public media news anyhow sure it is good for the congregation to get the truth untainted but otherwise, I think its harsh.


January 18, 2008, 21:51

Raskdog, I think they are trying sooo hard to be ”beyond reproach” that they forget about their own human frailty! As their churches grow they have a bigger and bigger responsibility not just for the flock but also as examples. They make ‘small’ mistakes ie a little lie here or there, usually with a self justification, that it won’t happen again, or maybe put themselves in a questionable moral position ie after hours councel with a woman , that could call them into account. It’s like an out of control snowball rolling down a slope, it gets larger and larger until it crashes and everyone knows about it! I believe a church or religious group needs to be accountable to each other and not just have the guy at the head, shouldering more than they can handle ( or think they can!)


I definitely agree with the accountability thing. With the more traditional churches. like the Anglican and Presbyterian churches there is a much more rigid heirarchy and the ministers are much more accountable.

A lot of independent pentecostal pastors are accountable to nobody.



OutPentecostal
 
Joined in 2006
January 19, 2008, 14:13

I wonder whether we hear of it more from the Pentecostal circle because Charismatics seem to dominate the media both in terms of ministries and news spotlights visa vi Hillsong et al.


I also think that falling from the pedestal in Pentecostal circles is both different in essence and in the handling compared to traditional churches; i.e. Anglican-Catholic churches are more likely to cover up than expose or shun; liberal churches may either cover up, ignore or even embrace “fallen angels” – and in particular, liberals would have different moralities and ethics from those in fundamentalist Protestant/Pentecostal sectors.


All the same, your question and observations are not only interesting but could form the basis for a colorful book 😉


Hmmmmm….



Anthony Venn-Brown
 
Joined in 2005
January 20, 2008, 17:39

yes its an interesting question. Having been there – done that I guess i can offer some insights. You could have put me on that list if you wanted to. I wouldn’t have been offended. whats done is done. the most important thing to me now …..is who I am now. …..right in this moment.


1. I’m not so sure as some others have said that in leaders from our background are more likely to fall into immorality. Looking back over Pente history it has been one of the four G’s. The Gals, the Gold, the Glory or the Grog. If it wasn’t adultery it was greed or pride and some even ended up alcoholics….which began with a little nip after the service to help them sleep. All these things though are human fragilties……and not exclusively ministers or even christian problems.


2. As Rob mentioned our preachers are more public, more out there, more ‘charismatic’……it goes on in other denominations just as much….believe me.


3. There is a psychological term ‘projection’. this is when the person might project their own internal dysfunction on to anther person or it came out in some behaviour. I think we could Jimmy Swaggart would be a great example of this kind of behaviour Preaching so vehemently against pornography whilst visiting prostitutes. Its complex. So some preachers who are hiding something will manifest that in an unhealthy way…..like being jdugemental and condemning.


the thing that i could never figure out was why It didn’t happen for me. Looking back I can’t see any time when my preaching and ministry turned from preaching a positive life message. Except in the last few months when i was burnt out…..but i think I took that out more on the church than condemning sinners.


4. Another factor to consider is the culture you are surrounded with. the language and spirit is always one of vitory, faith and overcoming. So if you are not making the grade in your private life and up there as a leader then it is incredibly difficult to face the truth. And if you do who do you tell. Who can you trust with that kind of information. Thats where the accountability thing comes into it. I think that from the big public falls there have been those who have learnt lessons and made corrections. I know of ministers today who have that level of accountability.


I think it is best if you take Geoff’s name out of this post Raskdog. I know Geoff……and as far as i know Geoff resigned from the ministry for different reasons besides immorality. Unless you know something i dont.


In the end we are all human beings. That means imperfections, failuares, shortcomings etc. Churches will never be able to escape that whether that be in the leadership or the congregations. This does not excuse inappropriate behavoiur but reminds us that in the end it is a level playing field.


Phew…….that was more than i planned write.



Optimist
 
Joined in 2007
January 21, 2008, 18:47

I haven’t seen any evidence that Pentecostal ministers have greater problems with “immorality” than ministers in other churches . The falls are just more public and spectacular

Ah poor Jimmy Swaggart – I always found him to be a repulsive figure. However there was an serious biography written about 10 years which gives people some insight into his life and I now feel now feel pity for him . Its all there – the dysfunctional family – the incredible sexual repression and a rigid belief system that prevented him from getting the help he so desparately needed . And the allegations about the sexuality of his wife are surprising .


January 21, 2008, 19:55

I haven’t seen any evidence that Pentecostal ministers have greater problems with “immorality” than ministers in other churches . The falls are just more public and spectacular

Ah poor Jimmy Swaggart – I always found him to be a repulsive figure. However there was an serious biography written about 10 years which gives people some insight into his life and I now feel now feel pity for him . Its all there – the dysfunctional family – the incredible sexual repression and a rigid belief system that prevented him from getting the help he so desparately needed . And the allegations about the sexuality of his wife are surprising .


Yeah I read that too. Very interesting biography.


Which raises a point. A lot of people are drawn to the Pentecostal movement because they have troubles in their lives that the Pentecostals promise to help them overcome. However they find that these problems are not so easy to overcome as first thought. The pentecostal movement restricts immoral behaviour, it doesn’t resolve it. Many people, including pastors, find that they have not dealt with these issues and they cover it up as the Pentecostals like an outward show that everything is ok. I remember the church I grew up in. Everybody dressed up in their Sunday best and went to church looking like happy perfect families when often they were anything but. Away from church there are all kinds of stuff going on. Pastors are no exception to this rule.



Sandy
 
Joined in 2007
January 21, 2008, 20:46

Well that leads into the question ‘what is the role of a church?’. I think that churches should help people to overcome problems that are causing them anguish in their walk with God but lets face it, people within the church are not professional psychologists or counsellers who have the ability to help significant problems like alcoholism, sexual immorality, gambling and so on. There isn’t a whole lot lay people can really DO in those circumstances. Thats why we have had over the last twenty years so many specialised ministries to deal with abuse and other things. I think of the church more as a base from which you can be connected to outside help if needs be.


Also, again lets face it the church is full of people with big, big problems in fact most christians will have them lot of the time. We are called to live as ‘aliens’ in this world, we go against alot of the ideals it endorses and its hard! Everybody seems to need a whole lot of support a whole lot of the time and its not possible for theologically trained individuals to cater to the needs of everyone.


For alot of things you need to be able to move beyond the theology to deal with them. In my case the theology says homosexuality is unnatural… don’t go there. OK but that doesn’t really help me deal with temptation on a day to day basis those things are learned outside of the theology through experience or psychology. It’s unrealistic to expect the words of God to change sinful patterns straight away, they are a command not a magical cure. The church is far from perfect and people do get lost in the mass but we also as individuals need to take responsibility for ourselves and our own lives and seek out the help that is avalible both within and outside of the chruch.


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